I never considered myself to be a
particularly artistic person. Yes, I enjoyed photography and music which are
forms of art. But I was never good at doing handcrafts, and didn’t particularly
enjoy them.
But for some reason, beginning a
relationship opened up that lost side of me. ;-) Because Jessie left for
college a month after we began our deeper friendship a year ago, I was limited
in what I could do for him. So I tried to be creative in coming up with ways to
make his first year away at college better. J
Looking back, I did something fun/creative for him almost every month while he
was away. So here’s a walkthrough of the projects!
In September, I started a weekly tradition
of writing him a pen-and-paper letter on Sunday afternoons. I thought he might
have fun getting something in the mail every week. J He even wrote back a few times
despite his busy schedule. ;-)
In October, Jessie’s family invited me
along to go visit him at school for the weekend. I eagerly accepted! It was so
fun to see his dorm and the college campus, enjoy some good food, watch some
football, and relax with him and his family.
In
November, I put together his first care package! I packed some mint gum, Twix
bars, and English Breakfast tea since those are some of his favorite things. I
handmade some decorative cards with Bible verses on them, thinking he could use
them as bookmarks or hang them up somewhere. I also sent him some homemade
mocha drink mix, and some packets to make 5
Minute Hot Fudge Cake. I found some thumbs up sticky notes
at Walmart, which I thought he would love! At Hobby Lobby, I picked up pens,
envelopes, stickers, and blank cards. Then I made him his own personalized
cards. J I also
included a small photo album with one picture in it. Then every week when I
wrote him, I included a new picture of us for him to put in it! J
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For
Christmas, I made him a Movie Night basket! :-) Mom found the actual basket at
Walmart, I believe. I put in a couple bags of popcorn (he doesn’t eat it
often), a box of Cheese crackers, some mini Twix bars, and a few glass bottles
of Coca Cola. I put “High School Musical” in the basket as a joke (he hates
that movie :P) and in his card, I put a certificate saying I would buy him a
movie of his choice. A few months later, I got him the first Hobbit movie. His
gift to me was much smaller but so special to me. He bought me an Infinity
ring from James Avery! :-D
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In January, Jessie was home for the first
part of the month. We spent a lot of time together and had some fun outings. I
was so sad when his month-long break was over! :-(
In March, Jessie went to Austria for spring
break with one of his classes. They were able to see some really cool
historical sites and architecture! I have a collection of postcards I’ve
collected from all over the world. So I picked one for each day of his trip,
wrote notes on each of them, and sent that packet with him. J Despite the time difference, he was
able to keep in touch with me every day, which I really appreciated!
In May, he came home from school!! :-D I
worked on a few projects in anticipation of the day he would ask to court me .
. .
Towards the end of June, his family left on
a 2-week backpacking trip with a local Boy Scout troop. I had spent some time
working on my hand-lettering skills prior to the trip. I came up with 14
different greetings or nicknames and found 14 different fonts on Pinterest.
Then I made my own stationary and wrote him a note for every day of the trip!
:-) He had been so sweet and sent me a long letter via email every day of our
Guatemala trip the week before. It made my night to read those!
This
past week, Jessie and I celebrated one year together. I did a little digging
around on Pinterest and came up with this “Number 1” picture collage with hand-lettered
decoration on the mat.
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I
found a similarly designed card on Pinterest and hand lettered my own take on
it.
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His gift to me on our anniversary was a
dozen long-stemmed red roses, and dinner out at the nicest restaurant in town,
followed a relaxing evening at a local park, dancing and watching the sunset.
He also gave me two special letters with a prayer and a journal entry he wrote
this same day one year ago. It was so very precious and thoughtful of him!
So needless to say, I am definitely being
inspired by Pinterest and am building a small arsenal of arts and crafts
supplies. ;-) I love Pinterest because it allows me to see the finished product
and then gives me direction on how to duplicate it. Perhaps I will post about
more fun projects in the future!
4 comments:
This is tooooo cute. You need to write a "How To" book on having a successful courtship. I can't wait to share this with Morgan. She has a "special friend". The have been friends since the 10th grade and in their senior year decided to date. We will look for your future posts :)
Love,
Aunt Debbie
My husband and I were long distance the entire 7 months we dated, and then for almost all of the 9 months we were engaged. Pinterest was my go-to for fun and creative ideas! (I did the happy thoughts jar too :)) One of my favorites (and his) was that I started keeping a notebook of letters, quotes, scripture, etc. for him about a month into our relationship - and wrote the last letter on the last page the night before our wedding. I gave it to him to open the morning we said "I Do!"
Well thank you, Aunt Debbie. It's been a good courtship so far, but it's probably a little soon to publish a book just yet. ;-) I'm curious to know more about Morgan's fella! With her artistic side, she would have an easy time doing projects like the ones in this post. :-)
Miss y'all!
~Bianca
Welcome to my blog, Julianne! :-D I really enjoyed your comment! That is so encouraging to hear. And that is an awesome idea! What a blessing I'm sure that was for him to read. :-)
~Bianca
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