Tuesday, March 1, 2016

5-Year-Plan Update

As a senior in high school, I developed a 5-year-plan for the years immediately following my high school graduation. I am almost exactly halfway through those five years now and thought it would be a good time for an update! :-) The items that are struck out are items that I’ve completed (although in many of those areas, I can certainly learn more and will strive to do so!) Next to other items, I’ve made note of where my progress is right now!

Prepare to be a good wife and helpmeet by:

·         Learning how to run a household budget and do banking (*I handle a lot of my own finances, but I would like to learn more about what an actual household budget looks like*)
·         Read through all the “Tightwad Gazette” issues and book
·         Learning how to clean an entire house regularly without using lots of cleaning products (read “Household Cleaning”)
·         Learning how to cook healthy, balanced meals on a reasonable budget (read “Cut Your Grocery Budget in Half”)
·         Learning how to manage my time well
·         Learning how to garden organically
·         Learning how to raise livestock (*we are currently in the process of acquiring chickens and rabbits!*)
·         Learning how to purchase good quality clothing on a budget
·         Taking care of young children via babysitting/nannying/foster care?/church (*I have babysat, been a nanny, and worked with children at church. Currently, I am working to get involved in a local foster care and adoption agency/ministry!*)
·         Helping homeschool/tutor my younger siblings
·         Submitting to my father’s authority
·         Learning basic sewing skills
·         Learning “special” household chores (mowing grass, weed whacking, changing/rotating tires, minor household fix-it jobs, etc.) (*I probably know a lot more about car maintenance, lawn care, and fixing household things than your average college-age girl. But there’s still a lot of things I would like to know before I don’t live in my Daddy’s household anymore!*)
·         Planning our family’s annual Cobbler Party
·         Taking a week to learn how to cook Abuela’s Puerto Rican food

Grow in my relationship with God by:

·         Personal devotions and Bible study
·         Reading books on theology
·         Reading R.C. Sproul’s works (*I am nearly finished reading the books we have by him.*)
·         Memorizing scripture (including at least 1 full book)
·         Mentoring/discipling a young lady one-on-one
·         Being mentored
·         Participating in occasional group Bible studies
·         Increasing my prayer life
·         Attending appropriate conferences related to spiritual growth
·         Starting a Bright Lights group?

Prepare for a lifetime of ministry/missions (regardless of location) by:

·         Earning a B.A. in International Studies from College Plus (read “Accelerated Distance Learning”) (*Lord willing, I will graduate in spring 2017!)
·         Attending the World Mandate Conference
·         Attending the Austin Stone Conference
·         Learning how to play violin and guitar
·         Writing to Valencia and financially support her
·         Volunteering at pregnancy center or homeless shelter
·         Volunteering at VOM (*Our church is talking about doing this later in the year!*)
·         Spending a month on the mission field (preferably in Haiti)
·         Helping coordinate missions trips for A Child’s Hope (potentially a team from our church)
·         Reading books we have on missions work
·         As I’m able, financially supporting missions work
·         Youth ministry/missions internship at church (learn about relationship building, how a church works and is involved in missions, and the nitty gritty of planning and administration)
·         Learning how to be flexible and live with less
·         Taking the Perspectives course
·         Taking some type of medical training course (*After I graduate from college, if finances allow, I would LOVE to get my EMT-B license.*)
·         Getting a private pilot’s license

Miscellaneous:

·         Taking a concealed weapons class (*I’m almost old enough!*)
·         Taking a photography class
·         Doing a photography internship
·         Going skydiving (*This is on my bucket list for 2016!*)
·         Reading 52 books in one year
·         Organizing family photos into albums
·         Starting a blog on post-high school life (*You’re reading it right now. ;-)*)
·         Writing a book (*I have started the process on this, but definitely will not work on it very much until I graduate from college.*)
·         Weighing 125 (*As I focus on fitness and eating healthy, I’ve become less concerned with this number and more concerned with how I feel and how my clothes fit.* :-))


As you can probably tell, I most likely won’t get to doing everything before 5 years are up. But the goal was to keep busy and keep learning, and that is definitely being accomplished! :-)

2 comments:

Olivia said...

I would love to hear more about the foster/adoptive ministry you are checking into. We did foster care for almost 10 months last year and our church just launched their own ministry to assist families who have foster and adoptive children. Caring for orphans is one of my greatest passions! I currently help out a family with 5 kids, 6 and under- all adoptive/foster. The rest of your goal list is great too! You've accomplished so much :)

-Olivia Swanson

Bianca said...

Hi Olivia! :-D Thanks for your comment! The ministry I'm going to serve with is Oklahoma United Methodist Circle of Care Inc. They have a large campus near where we live and they have close to a dozen homes on the property where foster families can come to live. I will be assisting a couple of families once a week in whatever way they need me. :-) It sounds like you've been blessed with a neat opportunity as well! I'm sure you'll hear more about my experience in the future. And thank you!

~Bianca